December 25-26 – Giving season
“This how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about : His mother Mary was pledged to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be pregnant through the Holy Spirit. Because Joseph her husband was faithful to the law, and yet did not want to expose her to public disgrace, he had in mind to divorce her quietly. But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary home as your wife, because what is conceived in her is from the Holy Spirit. She will give birth to a son, and you are to give him the name Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins” - Matthew 1:18-20
Last Friday I felt like Scrooge! My mood was very much 'bah humbug!' The last thing I needed alongside all the Christmas expenses was for the car to break down. In this case it wasn't my car. It was my wife's. No matter. The clutch was gone. The MOT was due. It needed a new exhaust and a few other things which, along with the annual service was presenting me with a bill roughly five times what the 11-year-old Vauxhall Corsa was actually worth. We took the painful decision to scrap it.
Friday morning saw me at the local office of 'Webuyanycar'. By forcing it into second gear before starting the engine, I managed to limp it into their car park. In generous mood they then offered me a full £75.00. It should hopefully appear in my bank account some day before Christmas.
That was the bad news. On the brighter side, Robin, the man who actually took the car off my hands was a very pleasant chap. He chatted as we went through the paperwork and eventually the question came, "What do you do for a living?" Within the next 30 seconds he discovered I was a Seventh-day Adventist
He clearly knew nothing about the Church to which I belong – despite his office being less than two miles from Newbold College where 1,000 church members worship each weekend. Yet that didn't stop him asking questions and over the next few minutes he asked all the normal ones – and then the harder ones about God and ISIS, why all the suffering – but more importantly, how can you have hope? I shared stories, pointed him towards http://adventist.org.uk and wished I'd had the latest Focus magazine with me as that seemed to have the answers to a lot of his questions, including his ones on evolution – and all in a format he'd be inclined to read. He now has a copy. I dropped it to him today. I hope as he reads it that it will make a difference.
I left his office feeling more cheerful than I expected. Luisa's car was gone, I was about to spend a lot more than £75 on a replacement, but somehow, that positive conversation with Robin, a man I would never otherwise have met, became a highlight of my day. Like Scrooge in Charles Dickens', A Christmas Carol, I somehow managed to move from the 'bah humbug' to the, "I am as light as a feather, I am as happy as an angel, I am as merry as a schoolboy..."
Somehow that is what sharing faith can do. I was impressed, last Sabbath, to meet with a 17-year-old schoolgirl who plans to head for a psychology degree at university She wants to help disturbed children. I talked with her about the challenges of the job and how emotionally draining it could be – despite the reward. She gave me that all-knowing look and explained that she already volunteered, working with disturbed youth She had already met the wrong end of a sharp knife. She knew what she was facing. She was committed. Her faith shone through in her actions.
It is meeting people like her that has brought me the greatest joy in my 35 years working in Christian Communication. It is what I have loved most about my last nine years as editor for BUC News – and is perhaps my greatest sorrow in letting go of the job and moving on. Stories like hers are ones I love sharing.
Which makes me wonder about Joseph He must have had his 'bah humbug' moment when Mary shared with him that she was pregnant. The Gospel accounts written from his perspective would make for interesting reading. It might even give my 17-year-old psychologist friend something to think about. Scrooge needed three ghosts to appear to him before he moved from 'bah humbug' to "I'm as happy as an angel." Joseph just needed the angel. Matthew 1:20-21 simply explains,
"While Joseph was thinking about this, an angel from the Lord came to him in a dream. The angel said, 'Joseph, the baby that Mary will have is from the Holy Spirit. Go ahead and marry her. Then after her baby is born, name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.'"
How must that have been for Joseph – watching that baby develop in Mary's womb, walking with her the long miles to Bethlehem, seeing the shepherds and the magi, escaping with the little toddler to Egypt? How must it have been searching for the 12-year-old Jesus in Jerusalem, or working with him in the carpenter's shop until those years came when Jesus started his ministry – when he turned up in Nazareth, proclaiming, "The Lord's Spirit has come to me, because he has chosen me to tell the good news to the poor. The Lord has sent me to announce freedom for prisoners, to give sight to the blind, to free everyone who suffers, and to say, 'This is the year the Lord has chosen.'"
We hear Mary's story. We love the accounts of Jesus, but I have a growing admiration for the stalwart Joseph. The man who stood by Mary, who supported Jesus, who listened to the angel: "Call him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins."
As I reread the Nativity story over the next week or so I want to put myself in Joseph's shoes. Then I want to think, "How can I best represent his character and his legacy today?"
Maybe it is a simple conversation with a car salesman. Perhaps it is handing out an appropriate magazine or tract. It might be my choosing a career of helping others. It may be focusing my mission and the mission of my Church on reaching out more consciously and directly to share hope and a positive future with the community surrounding me.
This Christmas season I'm taking the challenge. I'm sharing the joyful hope of the Apostle Paul, "I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings." [1 Corinthians 9:22-23]
On that basis, if you wish to join me, I believe I really can wish you a 'Happy New Year!'
[Victor Hulbert]
Music today is provided by “The Saviour of the World has Come” - (LIVE)