Jan 16 - 17 Jabez
JANUARY 16-17
“Jabez was more honourable than his brothers, and his mother named him Jabez saying, 'Because I bore him with pain.' Now Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, “Oh, that You would bless me indeed and enlarge my border, and that Your hand might be with me, and that You would keep me from harm that it may not pain me!” And God granted him what he requested' - 1Chronicles 4:9-10
We've all met people like this – insecure, with low self-esteem. They enter a room, attend a meeting, and leave without being missed. Either life or birth has left them with disadvantages, and as a result, they feel they just don't measure up. In 1 Chronicles chapter 4, we meet a man who meets this description – Jabez.
Jabez appears briefly – just two short verses - blink, and you'll miss him! He goes for gold then disappears again without mention. But, in the little we are told, his faith challenges us...his positive attitude encourages.... and his prayer can change our lives. Jabez rose above his disadvantage.
Little is said of Jabez's background, except that he came from the line of Judah. It seems that when he was born, his mother's pain was so severe she named him Jabez, - in Hebrew 'He causes, or will cause, pain.' This was to define his future and his future relationships. A man's name in Bible times was so related to his character, that “to cut off the name” of an individual amounted to the same thing as killing him, because without a good name for status, he might as well be dead. Also, with a name like 'pain' Jabez's street cred would be nil – and his brothers would have had a field day constantly rubbing salt into his wounds! It didn't help either that in other OT contexts the word 'pain' translates as 'idol' – a further stigma – did people see him in the context of false gods? - an outcast from Israel? Did his mother make an idol of him?
We've all been there, haven't we – felt the odds stacked against us and begged the Lord for strength to win through. Notice in the scripture reading that Jabez asks God for four things -
1st. He asks “Bless me indeed,” not just bless me, but to “bless me indeed”....a little word with great clout in the Hebrew language. Jabez wanted not only to finish the race, he wanted to win. So he added “indeed” ….a plea for supernatural favour and power on his life.
2nd. Jabez asks, “Enlarge my borders” - he's ambitious – he wants God to expand his opportunities for service – more influence and responsibilities to make a mark for God. Is it right to ask for more? Yes, if the business we're doing is God's – He's waiting for us to ask – Our business, our work, is the territory God's entrusted to us – our personal mission field. It's our opportunity to touch lives – our position is unique - no-one else can be where we are. Our families and homes too are unique to us. The Christian home is the most powerful arena to change lives.
3rd. Jabez requests that “Your hand might be with me.” He'd asked God for big blessings and a wider ministry, and he knew he'd fail unless God led him by the hand.
4th in this plea we find the secret of this confidence - “keep me from harm that it may not pain me” He asks for God's protection, and by doing so again draws attention to his name. Jabez clearly links the stigma of his name with his nature, and the grief he must have felt all his life. He pleads for God to free him from his past and give him a fresh start.
So many times our prayers can consist of the 'gimme's' and the 'if only I had's and I'd be able to do this, that, or the other for you God.' Jabez didn't go into the nitty-gritty of what he wanted, he left it up to God to decide the what, when, where and how – total trust – focusing like a laser on nothing more or less than what God wanted for him.
This brief sketch raises three questions -
1st. “What is my name? - your name?” If God named us what name would He use – critical, stubborn, short-tempered? Or, kind, loyal, generous?
2nd. Where am I, you, spiritually?” content to stay within small boundaries, afraid to go beyond? Or ready to buckle the seat belt and go with God on a roller-coaster ride into the unknown and discover what He has in store?
3rd and last, “What am I, you, asking of God?” Jabez asked big things and received them – humility, love, faith, hope and passion – the desire to be used up for God's purposes. He went from victim to victor.
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Our song today, “Hurt by Hurt” is sung by Sonya Isaacs Yeary – thank you Bryn. Click on the roller coaster road to listen.
Housekeeping details for you
The point of this short blog will become clear if you decide to use this reading in the way we intend it. Netherfield Seventh-day Adventist Church believes in healthy churches. You can see what that means if you head to the relevant Healthy Churches page of the website. We also want other churches to be healthy. That means you can join in our campaign to create healthy churches, with healthy people serving the people in those churches.
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