FEBRUARY 5 - Sheep's Clothing
FEBRUARY 5 – Sheep's clothing
"Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. "You will know them by their fruits. Grapes are not gathered from thorn bushes nor figs from thistles, are they?… “ - Matthew 7:15
In the New Testament there is a Greek term for 'tribulation,' it refers to “pressure....like being crushed under a big boulder,” - a description of pain and continuous strain – so descriptive of our times. There are so many types of pressure....unemployment....divorce....chronic/terminal illness....a son or daughter in with the wrong crowd....people who present as friends but are wolves in sheep's clothing The list goes on. But the pressure Samantha was under, and would become her tribulation, was. insecurity, a desire 'to belong,' and peer pressure.
I first saw Samantha some years back. I was in a cafe with some friends, when in breezed this group of people acting like a scene from a movie. As with all groups there was an obvious leader – Nick. Nick shadowed the girl who was the centre of attention for the whole clientelle – eyes were riveted on her as she 'worked' the tables. To say Samantha was beautiful is an under-statement. Blonde, blue-eyed, perfect skin and figure, dressed to attract, and a personality that lit the cafe. They didn't stay for a meal. It seems their sole purpose was to be seen, and invite as many people as they could to Nick's place where a party was to be held – and Samantha was the bait. Task completed Nick, Samantha and the rest of their group left the cafe with the same flourish they had arrived.
It would be a year later that I next saw Samantha – again, in the same cafe, with two or three followers, but minus Nick – he'd used and abused her and he no longer wanted Samantha as bait. I was shocked at her appearance. Gone was the beauty, the perfect skin, the attractive clothes, and the personality that had lit the cafe. In it's place was a shaking, ravaged body, and all the marks of hard drug abuse and alcohol. Again Samantha 'worked' the tables, not with a party invite this time, but looking for a hand-out for the next 'fix.' People either turned away or got up and left. That was the last time I saw her.
I wasn't to encounter Nick again until one day at the local hospital some six years later. I was having a coffee with a paramedic I knew when his mate took to the reception desk, a shrunken, dissipated, unkempt man who was vaguely familiar – and I mean vaguely! Samantha's body had been ravaged by the drugs, but Nick? My paramedic friend told me that Nick was terminally ill from Syphillis and hard drug abuse. I later learned from a friend that the parties Nick organised were 'softening-up' parties – events seemingly to offer friendship to the lonely, but their real purpose was to ply unsuspecting individuals with drink before getting them hooked on drugs.
My heart aches for the many Samantha's who today, are making wrong decisions. Ask your children and teenagers. Are there times when they feel insecure and have a desire 'to belong?' They are experts at knowing how peer pressure feels! Tell them they are never alone, God and their angels are by their sides....that they do 'belong,' - to you, but above all, to God's family, as His sons and daughters. He says to them, and us, “I know the pressure you are under. I understand the strain. I know the unfair abuse. But let me offer you some encouragement. Don't be afraid. Look at life through my eyes! Stop letting life intimidate you! Stop running scared. Trust Me!” (Charles Swindoll)
Pressed out of measure and pressed to all lengtth;
Pressed so intently it seems beyond strength.
Pressed on body and pressed in soul;
Pressed in the mind till the dark surges roll.
Pressure by foes, pressure by friends;
Pressure on pressure, till life nearly ends.
Pressed into loving the staff and the rod;
Pressed into knowing no helper but God.
(Annie Johnson Flint in John R. Rise, Poems that Preach)
Kirk Franklin presents, “Hold Me Now,” with lyrics, as my chosen song for today. Click on the picture to listen.